No problem. I'm still confused as to why it's redirecting rather than throwing an error. That problem should generate a MySQL error (ER_NET_PACKET_TOO_LARGE) which should have tossed an exception and been reported by J!, rather than redirecting, which would have saved us both a huge amount of time. I'm glad we got this resolved, but if we get another problem with mysterious redirects and no error message, I won't be able to help. Something is happening on your site to cause that redirect, and it makes it extremely time consuming to debug.
I also suggest you still talk to your host support about finding out what your max_allowed_packet is set to, which defines the maximum length of a query which can be sent to the database, and the largest row size that can be returned. By default I think it's a megabyte. And although having 350 "SELECT yourtable.foo AS yourtable__foo, yourtable.foo AS yourtable.foo_raw, yourtable.bar AS yourtable___bar, yourtable___bar AS yourtable___bar_raw ..." (so two "x AS x" for each element) with 350 elements would generate a very large query and large return rows, it shouldn't exceed a megabyte. So it's possible your server is configured with a much smaller packet max.
(The other possibility is that one or more of your elements is a huge text field, so the returned rows are > 1mb. By default we don't create anything bigger than TEXT, but if you imported this table with existing structure / data, it's possible you could have MEDIUMTEXT (16mb max) or bigger)
BTW, you might want to turn "include in list query" back to Yes on the groups for that form, I turned those off while testing.
The only other possibility is that you hit a memory limit, so check your memory_limit setting in PHP. Bare minimum is 64M, recommended for Fabrik is 128M, and I always set 256M.
-- hugh